Many of us have been there—agonizing over a decision, big or small. Should I take this job? Move to that city? End this relationship? Even down to the everyday: what to order on the menu, which jeans to buy, whether to say yes or no to a coffee date. For those of us who are parents it can get even more daunting—what school to send them to, when to be strict and when to bend, how to handle a difficult moment. No matter who we are or the particulars of our experience, choices are a part of how we build our lives. We make countless choices every single day.